What message are you trying to send by blowing up fellow Muslims? You want to be recognized by the Western world as a distinct entity. But you refuse to unite amongst yourselves. What's the point? How can you expect anyone to respect you if you don't any have any coherent objective and plan? You're just causing chaos and throwing those who are actually striving for peace into the shadows of questionability.
It's time to get your act together. Take care of the children - raise them to be future leaders and thinkers, not to blow themselves up. Don't hide your women, let them explore what they can really be and contribute positively to the world. Create peace amongst yourselves, and then try talking with the rest of the civilized world.